Hi Darlene, glad I was able to help. In terms of recovery from the SNB, I layed low for a few days (tried not to walk too much), then I was able to go back to work, but didn't resume excersise (my doc told me to wait at least 2-3 weeks before getting back on a tredmill). The area around the incision was pretty tender for a couple of weeks but that was about it. Oh, I did also have some swelling but I believe that's common after lymph node removal, you just have to be careful about what you do (no long walks/exercise, etc for a while). After I had the SNB I waited 2 weeks for the results, in fact it was my two week followup when I found out that the lymph node removed was positive. The surgery to remove the remaining lymph nodes was scheduled rather quickly (I found out on a Wed. and had the surgery the next Thursday), but I think the timing had a lot to do with how quickly they scheduled it (it was the week before Christmas, and I didn't think they wanted to post-pone to after the holidays). It was during this week that they scheduled a CT scan, which thankfully came back clear (I found out the results of that test 4 days later at my surgery).
The recovery for the 2nd surgery was much more extensive. I spent the night in the hospital and checked myself out the next day (I didn't get much sleep there). Walking was extremely difficult and painful initially (getting up stairs was a big problem). I was prescribed some heavy duty pain killers, which did help, but the mobility of my leg was just not there and it was very difficult to lift my leg. The second week was better. The pain wasn't as bad but I still layed low. The third week I was feeling a lot better, but still tried to lay low as much as possible. I had two drainage tubes in and two weeks after the surgery I had one removed and at the third week I had the second removed (this was so fabulous because I was unable to shower with the tubes in). I was also fitted for a compression stalking during the 3rd week, which is annoying but really helps and cuts down on the swelling (and had prevented swelling in my ankle). It's been about 5 weeks since my surgery and I'm feeling much better. I've even started walking regularly to build strengh back in my leg. I start the Interferon treatment next week, which I know will wipe me out, but it's necessary.
I hope and pray that your son doesn't have to go through the second surgery. Melanoma is such a crazy disease, but I have found the support on the web very helpful (I also pop on to www.mpip.org). Please let me know if you have any other questions. Good luck and take care.