Hello, Steve...
This will be coming to you after your appointment on the 17th....so I don't know that it will help much but I will tell you what I did and what I am still doing.
I was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the age of 51 (in the spring of 2002), had a PSA level of over 30. Gleason score of 6 and a T2b indicator.
After much research, (yes, my urologist recommended surgery to remove--it seems to be the standard answer but many times, I have found that to be the case with the older doctors, how old is your doctor?) and a second opinion, I decided to go with radioactive seed implants with hormone therapy (injections of Lupron Depot every four months in the hip) and radiation.
I, personally, had all of this done at the University of Maryland Medical System (which is located in Baltimore, Maryland. It is a teaching and research hospital which translated for me into meaing that I would get the latest "tried and true" method. Yes, I felt somewhat like a guinea pig or a test subject, but I also felt that if I was going to be treated at this type of facility, that I would get the latest and best treatment as opposed to the old standby of surgical removal.
I had the radiation for five days a week for six weeks(boy,was I glad when that was over as I traveled for two hours in both directions to get 10 - 20 mins of radiation), then the implants and continue to receive the injections....(I received my first injection on July 18, 2002 and still take them to this day), my urologist at the Maryland Prostate Center recommended that I do this for two years, so that means I will continue to have these shots for another 6 to 9 months.
I have had two PSA tests done since the implants were done in December 2002. The first was 0.0 and the second was 0.02, so needless to say, I am pleased. shucks, pleased is not the word, estatic is the word.
But, I will say this to you....surgery is but one of the many options that are available to you...the fact that so many of us baby boomers are getting this is causing the medical community to do a lot more research. New and emerging treatments are being heard about each day it seems.
Your decision on your type of treatment is yours to make. Don't make your decision based on what your grandfather, father or uncle did as they may not have had all the facts. As this is the Information Age, check out all that you can...the "Net" is chock full of information, and as one respondent suggested, check out the American Cancer Society Prostate Cancer Resource Center. They have lots of facts and figures as well as lots of new treatments that are available.
I am not sorry that I picked the treatment option that I did, and no matter what you decide to go with...there will be side effects that can be (and most definitely will be) unpleasant. I went with what I did because of the busy lifestyle that I lead, I did not wish to be out of work for 6 weeks...which is the time that was quoted to me if I went with surgery. As a single parent of one son, I could not be an invalid for that long!!
But, I do wish that I had contacted the Cancer Treatment Centers of America BEFORE I elected my procedure as they seem to be very good at what they do. They may have been able to suggest a third opinion. And they have been very helpful to me since I contacted them.
Yes, I continue to research and to learn all that I can...nothing is certain about Prostate Cancer as it can return, but the future (for me) appears much brighter with much more hope than I had in July 2002 when I was told that I was a "3+3".
Steve, I wish you the best...and if you like, contact me by e-mail and we can "chat"!! Take care and good luck!!!