My father (69 years old) has had bladder cancer for 10 years. After multiple treatments and a new bladder, kidney removal, and now again radiation and chemo due to secondary bone cancer, I'm wondering what to expect. He's got a lot of pain and they've given him 6 months to a year. He can't get up out of bed anymore and is weak. Funny thing is the cancer is only in his bones and not his organs or blood stream.