Hi Padernall- I'm sorry to hear of your diagnosis. From everything that I've read over these last 2 years, tubal cancer is tricky in that the cancer is in a 'tube' with open ends. Therefore the cancer cells have a way to get out into the abdomen. The proper surgical treatment is to remove everything and stage the cancer by doing a 'wash' of the inside of your abdomen. There's no other way to stage it. My mom's tubal cancer was found after the fact and the surgeon did not want to do more surgery to stage it, so they gave her the max treatment of 6 cycles of chemo. Her tumor was approximately 8-16mm, can't quite remember now. I'm very surprised with a tennis sized tumor your ob/gyn didn't just remove the whole tube.
I don't have any advice on alternate treatments. All I know about this disease is it is important to be vigilent in treatment like you would if you had ovarian cancer. It is extremely important that you get second and third opinions, preferably from a university type program or doctor. Time is of the essence with this diagnosis.
I know I haven't been much help. I'm sorry I couldn't direct you better. If you do find some alternative treatments, please let me know. I'm collecting information as much as I can.
Please take care and I wish you lots of luck!
Karyn