Hello,
Im 23yrs old and discovered about 3 swollen lymph nodes about 8yrs ago on my neck. One is on the left hand side by the end of the jaw bone and is approx 2.3cm long and 1cm high. Then I've got about 2 small ones on the left and right side of the neck, basically in the middle of each side. The one on the left is about 7mm long and 2mm high and the one on the right is 1cm long and 2mm high aswell. As I was about 15yrs old I had discovered them, not sure if they were there before hand, it was just a time in life where I started to check my body for lumps since a close person of mine died because of cancer. So I went to the doctor to get it checked out and he said its just asymmetrical. No concern. None of the lymphs has grown, stayed exactly the same size for the past 8yrs (or longer, depending if they were there before I had even discovered them, as before the close person of minde died, I didn't bother with checking my body at all). At the time I discovered them, I had a bad and painful tooth on the left side at back, so after the doctor told me its just asymmetrical I thought it might also just be because of a local infect or might be related to my acne which is still showing up these days.
Now about 1 week ago, I got a lump just behind the ear, where my earing keeps poking on when I sleep or have my headphones on, it swell up and is painful when I touch it (not too painful tho). Then I went on the internet to search for what I could do about it since I was pretty sure it started since the earing keeps poking on the exact same spot where the lump appeared.
Then I found a lot of forums where people talked about lumps behind the ear and on the neck, pea-sized etc..and talked about they had them for few years and got diagnosed with lymphoma. Since my lymph nodes are not painful at all, the ones on the sides are squeezable aswell the one with about 2.3cm is also "soft", its not hard as my jaw bone but ist not soft as jelly which can be just pressed down.
I would say they are move-able, eventho I don't know what people would consider move-able, like moving it freely around about 1inch, as if it was a ball below the skin, then no I can't do this. Moving it a bit (few mm), touching the sides and it shifts up etc.., then yes it is. I actually don't have any symptons I know of, right now I'm feeling kind of tired but believe its due to to much work and little sleep, I gained about 10kg within the last 6months so weight-loss is a no for me aswell. Hardly get sick, if I seem to catch a cold from my girlfriend, I have a runny nose for about 2days and then Im back to normal, all In all I hardly get sick (maybe 2 times within the last couple of years).
But my concern appeared as I read a few post on a forum from people that said the lumps dont need to grow in order to be dangerous, even throughout the years and that symptons only happen within 1/3 of lymphoma cases and especially with lymph nodes above 1cm its dangerous etc.... So all this has me freaked out again like 8yrs ago. I thought its Ok, they didn't grow, I'm feeling good and its been sooo long ago that I discovered them, like I said, maybe they have been there since birth, maybe since 10yrs or more. but im just not able to sleep properly at nights cause im too freaked out and too scared to visit a doctor, so I post here and ask for advise.
Now I hope somebody can point out to me a few things,e.g. how movable do lymph nodes have to be, is it normal that you can always feel lymph nodes even if no infection is there, or do they have to stay as flat as a paper and only appear when and infection is there? When they say, are your lymph nodes tender, does it mean tender, as in tender like a tongue? When they ask is it hard, does it mean as hard as a bone or wood? After reading my post, would you recommend to contact a doctor as soon as possible or just stop surfing the internet forums about diseases and freak myself out? I know there people with much more serious problems on here but I really would appreciate some advise. My girlfriends keep takling to me saying its nothing I should worry about since its been there for so long etc.. but just can't help myself to be freaked out, I rather ask people whom might have more knowledge on this topic.
I apologize for this long post but thank you for your help and device in advance.
kindest regards from the UK
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