Hi Gailee: I don't know where you live and I certainly won't try to re-direct your chosen course - but being newly diagnosed, as my wife was almost a year ago, I know that you were shocked, horrified, and stunned with your life upside-down in seconds - after hearing the dreaded words. I am, however, going to STRONGLY encourage you to get an immediate 2nd opinion. NOW, before it's too late to change treatment methodology. Your waiting until Feb. to see your oncologist tells me that you are NOT getting what you need!! What we've learned in these past months is that ALL DOCTORS ARE NOT EQUAL!! - and you have nothing to lose - since time is not a factor for you now until Feb.
My wife, Jennifer, being given: "6 months to 5 years maximum" by our original doctor(s), had nothing to lose, either. We heard about and called CTCA (Cancer Treatment Centers of America) and our life changed almost immediately! Really! During the initial phone call, they offer a 2nd opinion (at no cost to you as they deal directly with your ins. co. and take all the $$ consideration away). 2 days later, plane tickets arrive at our door via Fed-Ex and we're gone - to IL where they have a center (1 of 5 in the USA). Needless to say, our prognosis was REVERSED and treatment began IMMEDIATELY after inital tests to verify the original diagnosis - and our life was given back to us - slowly but definitely. As they say, however, TIME is of the utmost importance. EARLY treatment is critical. That's why I think waiting until Feb. for you is absolutely unacceptable - when immediate, world-class treatment is available.
They have everything in one bldg., terriffic food, and never say "no" to a patient. Recreation is a must and, believing in "laughter therapy", they have comedians come in every Friday to entertain. Your are treated like royalty! Off-site accomodations are available at 50% off for both patients and spouses, also. Their doctors are world-class, caring, and available every day to all patients under their care. You stay usually 4-7 days and then they fly you home (or release you) for 2-3 weeks so that your normal life is as uninterrupted as possible while being treated. You never receive a bill and are only responsible for your ins. deductible amount. While at home, your assigned, oncology nurse calls regularly and you are given phone #'s to call, if needed, day or night. Surgery is a last resort with them - if it can be avoided.
CTCA is amazing! We never knew anything like it existed anywhere! Now, 11 months later, we're alive, near being cancer-free, and resuming normal activities - ready to have a wonderful Xmas and thankful we went to IL - from Arizona - 7 times (all her flights were covered and mine were discounted drastically). We're looking forward to our next visit in January and seeing our wonderful doctor and all the friends (staff and patients) that we've met and become friends with. Oh yes, by the way, they pick you up and deliver you to the airport in a beautiful stretch-limo. Really!
The # to call, (day or night), 7 days a week is 800-FOR-HELP. You have nothing to lose while you wait (unnecessarily) - and possibly your life to gain. WE LOVE and thank God for CTCA!!
Good luck and God bless you both,
Dave & Jennifer in Arizona