I do try to understand...but,
Both my parents behave as if it's a minor thing and no need for me to panic and overreact and move home... basicaly my mother told me that it would be worse if I was to move back (as I am willing to from day 1) as i would make my father more emotional and it would give the wrong message; i.e. nothing to do...
I have a brother who lives close to my parents and with whom i have a very good relationship... we are best friends... He acts like my parents!!! everything is ok and going as usual and he doesn't seem to understand the extent of the problem (because my parents have the same attitude with him there). He keeps telling me that unless i bring some magic potion home there is nothing i am going to add there and he sees no point on me changing my life over this!!!
So now... i don't get it! I would move back now if I was to choose! of course I don't want to agravate a situation if there is no need for it... I would be more than happy to see no urgency in moving back.
I have made an appointment with an oncologist here and perhaps get a better judgement of the whole situation.
Once again, thank you for the advice,
Love,
S.