i lost a family member to cancer it was the worst time of my life with the love and support of family and friends i got through it.i have a friend whose dad is dying with very little time left,i know he is suffering on his own but he will not except help.he is convinced his dad will get better, i want to be there for him but he is shutting me and every one else out.i try to be a good friend but i cannot watch him tear himself apart this way,wot can i do it's breaking my heart seeing him likr this.