Thank you Iris from the Netherlands:
I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my somewhat vague post. I am sorry for the pain you and your family are currently going thru. I wish you the best.
It is hard for me to understand my uncle having a health crisis and not wanting to know or not sharing with others in hopes of creating a support system. When my mom had pancreatic cancer I was like a sponge learning all there was to know about this silent killer and we welcomed any support we could get. I guess my role at this point it to be there if my aunt and uncle ever do decide they need me. I think once they open him up to do the procedure they will know alot more.
Thanks again,
K Ricker (In the US - Maine)