hi sorry about your wife, i too have the stress ,worry, madness for tit happening to us, my bsby boy is 29 hes ahd 26 surgerys from birth born with bladder extrophy, a surgery he had at age 4 years old caused this wwere dealing with today, he has colon cancer 4th stage as well as germ cancer inliver and lung, weve here at medothist hospital in h ouston for 45days when they told us he had cancer i said no way hes been thurgh to much but here we are, and i pray very hard allday and night and ill pray for you and your wife also. i know were not supose to ask why but i do dont you. im by my sons side day and night we havent sleep a good two hours in over 2months but i cant leave him hes my baby, and i watch other patients without family here they dont get the care they need. so pray and believe and GOD WILL see us thru these hard times. now my son has had 2 rounds of 5 day kemo and 1 each week, we still cant go home cause he cant stand his little legs are like toothpicks and his legs cramp allday and night, if you need to talk email me well discuss our cancers and try to help each other. as for a therphy helping i find friends or people i never met hevp me more i dont like phycs. god bless hope to hear from you. brians mom god bless
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