On 7/8/2007
Amorvenicito wrote:
My mom passed away almost a year ago due to cancer in the bile duct.
I'm really just looking for people to talk to about it, people with expierence and emotional envolvement with this type of cancer.
please. i really just need SOMEONE.
she was 58, and had the cancer for about 1 1/2 years. the end was really bad, we put her in hospice and she went into a 17 day coma.
i was 14 at the time, im now 15.
I am Iris, and I live in the Netherlands. I like to respond to your message. I am so very sorry for your loss. Fifteen is just too young to miss your mother.
I am 61 years old and so is my husband. He is suffering from the same cancer and we have only a few months left. We were looking for him to become 65 and not work any more. So we could do nice things, for our health looked so good. And from one day to another this changed.
We are trying to stay optimistic, because we had a wonderful life and have two beautiful grown-up sons. And that is what I am trying to give you as comfort. You had your mom fifteen years and though that is too short, try to be happy for those years you did have her and you loved her and she loved you. Allways think of her with a smile, because that is what she would want you to do.
People that die are not gone. It's the memory that keeps her alive.
I wish you all the strength and should you want to contact me more, please feel free to do so.
Love, Iris.