Hi. I dont really know why im here - i mean i know why im here and i cant believe i am here. I have a partner who has just been diagnosed with urachial cancer and we are waiting for surgery. I had no idea how hard the wait and journey thus far was going to be. I cant seem to get the word out of my mind and every little cough, ache or pain he has sets me into a tailspin. I feel utterly helpless in this fight and crying seems to be the only thing i do. Its day 10 since we were told. I have read messages on here and find that they do give me hope and strength to get me to where we would all like to be. Thank you Pauline T