I hope I've misinterpreted one of the responses as to why not you? No one deserves to be in your position. My daughter is 31 married almost 2 years in October and I can't imagine what it would be like for her to have found herself in your position. Your husband is extremely lucky to have found you in his life. I'm extremely sad that you both haven't had the opportunity to have a normal life as most young couples. My sister lost her fiance last year to melanoma as well. He had three young children, the youngest 5 so my thoughts are with you. Hospice is indeed the best place for his care. I will pray for him and for you. God bless!