My husband was exactly the same - he was 37 - we have 2 children - it is so tough - they become a person you don't know anymore and you feel lost. Putting Nick in a hospice was the best thing I did - they are the best people in the world. Take heart - it is so tough but you will get through - if you need me e-mail --Message edited by CancerCompass staff. For personal protection, email address removed. Consider private reply. Please review CancerCompass Member Guidelines at http://www.cancercompass.com/common/guidelines.html--