Thanks to all for your kind thoughts, prayers and information...I will look at them immediately. Brian just got out of the hospital again and is stable. I have just had palliative/hospice nurse out last week upon your suggestions. She was capable but no real strong connection with Brian, her presence made him uneasy, I am going to see if we could meet another nurse that would make Brian feel a bit better about the visits.
I'll let you know how we are doing. God bless.