i am so sorry to hear about your wife you are in my pryers. my mother passed away 9/25/07 I am so glad that she is not in anymore pain cancer is a beast and i hate that any of us has to go through this. I hope that my mother did not pass from a broken heart because her children did not come and spend time with her. I know that hurt her more than the cancer did. please love and spend every minute that you can with your wife that is what she needs most.