Hello Jazzysmom~~ Hearing the diagnosis of Cancer is a very frightening time, and most of us immeditely jump to the conclusion that there is not much time left. This can sometimes be the case, but I prefer to think of the quote "Cancer is a word, not a sentance'. For most of us, coming to grips with the fact that this is really what we have is the hardest part of hearing the diagnosis. Then facing the future and having to decide how we are going to deal with it comes next. Your aunt is very fortunate that you have found this site, for you will be able to research her condition for her and assist her with advocacy as she starts her cancer journey. Knowing something about the cancer type, the drugs most commonly used to treat it - as well as the side effects of these same drugs - , whether surgery or transplants can help.....the list goes on and on. However going into this situation with knowledge is the best postition to be in. Making informed choices and being able to really 'talk' with your oncologist helps the patient to feel that they are dealing from a position of strength. If you can support her by attending doctors visits with her she will really be blessed, for as a patient I have found that I only 'take in' about a quarter of what the doctor says each visit. Having my carer (in my case my husband) with me for each visit makes a huge difference. I hope that you will be able to assist your aunt as she begins this cancer journey. Hopefully you will be that special person who will help her with information, understanding and most of all love!! Best wishes to you both, Cath