On 10/9/2007
Oncrx wrote:
it sounds like your discussions should be with your sister, not your mom. Your sister is an adult and is responsible for her own care. She needs to wake up and get in the game. Its up to her to stand up to your mom, not you. If she allows others to dictate her care then there really isnt much you can do. Dont let your sister ruin your relationship with your mom.
I think it's important to remember that her sister is also extremely sick and weak at this point. She is doing battle with cancer-she should not have to battle her mom or anyone else. If she feels anything like my dad then she can barely lift her head, much less "get in the game."