My 84 year old grandmother just found out that she has stage 3 bladder cancer. She is a wonderful woman and we always said that she will live until she is 110y/o. But as we got the news yesterday that may not be an option. I am 20 years old and im looking for another way that she can do without the removal of her bladder. She has one son my dad never smoked or drank a day in her life and she also never had to work a day in her life. So yes this was very unexpected. I am very concerend that if they decide to do the surgery to remove her bladder completely she is going to go down hill from there. Those doctors think that surgery is the only answer and chemo is out of the question in my eyes she is to old. I dont wont to remember my grandmother with a bag of urin hanging off her side. Please let me know if anyone knows any other loop hole. Thanks