Hang in there girl!!!!! I know the feeling of being scared about the hysterectomy. It is the uncertain things that stick in your head and you worry about. Everyone can tell you it will be all right and I hope that it is but in your head those things will drive you nuts. If your husband doesn't support you now get rid of him. After you have your surgery you will need people around you that care for you and love you not someone that doesn't even care. I will also mention that sometimes female problems tend to make us blow things out of proportion. I told my husband the night before my surgery that I wanted a divorce and don't even come to the hospital with me because he wasn't welcome. You know what he did wrong? He asked me what time I had to be at the hospital the next morning and what time we should get up. Of course he did go and was there holding my hand when I woke up. It is a good thing he knew that I was just upset.