I am Stage IV also and am on my 3rd type of chemo. I was diagnosed in April of 04. YOu have to look at this as a chronic disease. I don't know if it can be cured, but it CAN be controlled. I go on one chemo until the cancer starts to spread, then stabilize it with another drug. Not easy, but not too bad either with all of the things they have to fight side effects. I feel OK and go on vacations, go to dinners, shows etc. Try to keep a positive attitude. I really believe that it plays a major role in your survival.
Diane T.