PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE COULD SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO SAY??????????
My sister was diagnoised in May with this awful illness..it was at stage 4.. no operation would do any good.. she also had to have a stint because the bile duct was blocked......right from the start this was a very agressive cancer with no warnings only problem was GAS!!.....we are now in November after 5 rounds of 5 day agressive chemo.....this woman has gone from 14stone... to 6 stone in that time....... no amount of coaxing could get her to eat or drink with out upsetting her and causing all kinds of concern.... the emergency room was only visited twice...THANK GOD!!!! ...(THAT ALONE IS A TRAUMOR ON ITS OWN).......We are now just waiting to be honest!!! ...WHAT do we say? this woman is the most respected tender gentle woman......WHAT ???? do you say ...whan she asks.....WHY????????? am i not getting better!!!!!!!??????????....We have been honest with her all the way as she wanted but we cannot bring ourselves to say what is now about to happen any time very soon... she is very weak and can hardley keep her eyes open...........
Readign back this is a rant i can see but a we are beside ourselves with not knowing what to say aprt from that she is LOVED VERY MUCH and we are trying to make her as comfortable as we can!!!!!!
ANY ADVISE PLEASE...............