On 11/13/2007
Cropsey wrote:
Please help!
My husband and I want desperately to switch him to a different oncologist. The current physician is so very discouraging. We want to have someone who knows that the disease is serious but can talk to us with some compassion. This one only says things like "I can't guarantee you'll be here next year." This goes on at every visit. (My husband is on a chemo regimen.)
Today, my husband spoke with the manager of the office and asked to change doctors. She called back saying that she spoke to the doctor we requested, and he said that the current physician is a good one and that he is giving the correct treatment. We know that. That's not the problem! It's his personality and lack of kindness.
What can we do? There's only the one office in our town. There are about 4 oncologists there, plus one who is a palliative care physician.
If anyone has had a similar issue please tell me how you dealt with it.
Thank you so much......
Eileen
Dear Eileen,
It is sickening to have to report your situation is not that unusual. My Daughter is an ovarian cancer survivor. During the initial shock and discovering the treatment options, and how to proceed to cure the disease, we were subjected to the medical profession's routine lack of personal caring. The only facility we felt had a personal stake in her healing was Cancer Treatment Centers of America. I can't say enough about their approach to cancer as a total mind, body experience.
Remember it is your responsibility to seek an oncologists who shares your belief that cancer is just a disease. It is up to you to take control of your life and your physician. Spend as much time to find the right Dr. as you would spend buying a car,. You need more than a good Dr., you need a man of faith and healing knowledge. Do your homework, search the web for your best options, and don't stop until you find the right ansers for your particular situation. Interview your next oncologists, and give your cold doctor the boot. Look for a professional who understands a positive, strong attitude is necessary to assist you in healing. Live Long and Strong
Praise the Lord, and pass the ammunition!