Ginny,
I know that we cannot afford to take care of him 24/7 even if I could emotionally. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. How is your husband doing and what do the doctors say? Since his affair I've asked he many times to ask his family for help. His family isn't very close so I guess instead he joins a new (different religion than we are) church that has provided some help. Then he goes and gets baptised in this other religion without my knowledge. I just can't understand. I figure when it gets bad I will have to ask his family to assist. I know this sounds terrible but I think that if he still cares he would go live somewhere else and relieve me from this decision. He has to see what it is doing to our family. Thanks again for your caring words.
Karen