My Dad was diagnosed with an aggressive type bladder/urothelial
cancer early 2007. Unfortunately, the diagnosis was too late and he
passed away in March of '07. I currently do volunteer work with teh
Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network. THeir website is www.bcan.org. You can
find very informative stuff on that site. In addition,
www.blcwebcafe.org is a site which I found quite helpful while going
through the battle with my Dad. It was helpful to be able to chat with
others going through the same thing. Since my Dad's fight was soo short
lived (he actually contacted sepsis, probably from the catheter which
was in place for 5+ months), I really can't help with any information
myself regarding chemo, etc. I do wish your husband and you and your
family the best. Please know that there are people out here who are
saying prayers for you all. God bless.
Kathie