I had a radical systectomy April 29 2,004. I was 57 at the time. in my case thank G_D it was not invasive and it looks like it was caught on time.
I live in Texas but had it done at USC Norris Cancer Center in Los Angeles with Dr. Donald Skinner and his team. This is what they do and they are great at it.
Before my surgery I had BCG treatments that did not appear to help much. It has been almost 4 years now and everything seems to be fine.
I wish you all the best especially on this Thanksgiving Day. If I can help in any way please let me know and I'll gladly try