On 12/18/2007
maryelizabeth wrote:
Hello Everyone,
We have a neighbor who has just had a recurrence of ovarian cancer. She had extensive surgery and will soon return home. I haven't known this woman very long but I need to help in any way possible. I've lost close family members to cancer, but I've known their needs, comforts, etc. and therefore was able to sense how I could help. I would appreciate any ideas, large or small, that would point me in the right direction. I know the obvious things such as dinners for the kids, etc., but please tell me what special things you've had done for you. I'd like to rally the troops and help in any way possible. Thank You!
Mary
Hi Mary,
I've had breast cancer surgery 2x and ovarian cancer surgery and I can tell you what I appreciated the most was company as it can get very lonely home alone and I felt safer when someone was with me in the event I could not get up safely from the sofa. In addition, some chores for 6-8 weeks would be greatly appreciated, such as laundry, dusting & vacuming and running some errands (such as food shopping, etc.) I received food baskets and some meals from friends and relatives but nothing was appreciated nearly as much as the company and the light chores!
Gashenka