I found it so helpful for one person to coordinate the meals and bring them to me. When I was first diagnosed, I just could not deal with company. I'd ask her if she has this and, if not, would it be helpful? I really like the idea of light chores and grocery and picking up prescriptions helped me so much> Also, get to know her well and then you will notice things that would help. Let her know you can be with her without making chit chat.