On 12/22/2007
Marco-Italy wrote:
I'm writing from Italy. Unfortunatly doctors make a serious diagnosis to my mother just one month ago. A pancreatic cance with metastasis to the liver. She's started a treatment of chemo with the most used products. I've read a lot on the web, trying to go deep in the problem. Docts as usual say only a part of the reality. I'm really terrified about the future, I'm only 23 and I deeply love my mother. Everywhere they talk about a residual 12 month of live. Could I really weak-up everyday thinking can be a day less with my mother in the future? why go can do this thing? I want to share this dolourous exprience with someone. Please help me.
Marco
Marco, I have terminal ovarian cancer. I have two Daughters the same age as you are. I can imagine what you are feeling as my Daughters are also terrified. My advice to you my dear is talk to your mum about how you feel. She will be scared too. The awful thing about this disease is we all tend not to discuss it for fear of upsetting each other. Sending you a big hug from UK XX