i need some help to deal with my husband who has terminal cancer. i try to keep things as normal as possible but he rages at times and he will not try to see what we are dealing with. he only sees it from his point of view. the kids and i have so many worries about our future that itis hard at times to deal with. he will not acknowledge that we are having a hard time with this also! what can i do to keep my sanity and try to hold my kids and house together? any coping tips wil be great! i am at my wits end. he does not see a problem on his end only me and the kids. the kids are 20 and 16. thanks! laura