I am a patient who lives with MM 24-7. And you know what? My WIFE lives with it 24-7, too. So I invite anyone to walk in my shoes or my wife's shoes for one day, anytime they want to and tell me that you don't need some POSITIVE incouragement pretty regular! So I agree with you. Let's all be reminded of that old saying, "If you can't say something, then don't say anything at all!"