On 1/3/2008 pjpjpj wrote:
My brother age 44 non smoker non drinker was diagnosed with ampullary cancer 2 days before Christmas. He is due for surgery on Jan. 5th at Mass General Hospital. Was wondering what he can expect and what thw family can expect. We are praying it has not spread he has two very small children. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks
My father had the Whipple over 6 years ago. He had incredible complications having had a surgeon that wasn't so experienced but he made us feel like we had to rush in and take care of this... My mother's biggest regret is not really researching and traveling, if necessary, to find the best or at least one who has done MANY. His surgery was botched and he spent 5.5 months in the hospital near death. Another surgeon went back in and saved him...
After the surgery - demand to stay - as long as possible. Don't let them kick you out right away. Complications? Go right back to the emergency so that he's admitted. Don't mess around and try to be tough.
Consider chemotherapy even if they say it's not necessary, i.e. "they got it all". My Dad's has metastisized into his bones, spine, and lymphnodes (didn't discover this until 5.5 years later). He's fighting the big fight now...
Pray and love all moments with him and all the family. I am praying for him now - if you want my e-mail:
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God works miracles!
Michelle J - Marina Del Rey, CA