I had a total gastrectomy on 12th January 2004 when I was 54. Apart from the total removal of my stomach, my spleen and part of my pancreas was also removed and this was followed by Chemo. Not having a stomach made receiving Chemo more difficult and I lost about 25 kilos but now I have regained 15 kilos but I have been told that I will remain around this weight. I can only say from experience that there will be difficult periods but you have to keep positive to give your husband the strength to carry on. I consider myself in the survival cancer club now as my last control tests have all been good. I have formed my own company and I feel that the lord has left me here for some mission which I want to fulfill. It is important to understand that cancer patients go through various emotions but I am sure that with your husband’s positive attitude and your support he will be OK. God bless