They have found a 3 cm by 3 cm tumor on one of my ovaries with a 3 cm lymph node involvement next to it. There is ascites present. I have seen my gynecologist and made an appointment with a gyn oncologist at the teaching hospital Medical College of Richmond, in Virginia for this Wednesday. I concurrently have a stomach problem going on and had a cat scan which revealed thickening of the stomach whatever that means but explains the discomfort I am having. I am very nervous about this whole thing just having nursed my mother through small cell lung cancer and seeing what she dealt with. Any advise would be welcomed...as to what to ask, what to pursue, etc. Thank you.