hi genevieve! so sorry to hear your news. i dont know if i'll be able to help, but my mum whos in her 50s was recently diagnosed in September 2007 with EC-stage IV (with spots in her liver only) also. she's been on an intravenous chemotherapy (drugs starting with E,C,F) since then. the last 2 months or so she's had to have 1 weeks breaks in between because of extreme weight loss and nausea. recent ct scans showed the esophagus tumour and some liver cysts decreased in size, but theres one liver cyst that doubled in size. she gets lots of pain on the side of her liver. also has a hard time eating. shes stopped working and is at home resting alot of the time. my family and i are really worried. she's our not only our mom but our best mate!
i'll keep u updated! hope this helps! our prayers are with you and ur partner! just hang in there.
charli (syd, australia)