Thanks for the Info. I agree the mental part is huge. It isn't that I feel unatractive really. For me my breasts were just the source of most sexual sensation and now with both breasts gone and then add to that the Arimidex with its side effects, I just feel totally unsexed.
didi,
My heart goes out to you. This whole darned cancer thing is a slam in the ego, the sexuality, the self-confidence, and just plain what life was supposed to be about. But, there are others going through much worse. I don't kow if that thought will help, but it does get me through some of my bigger hurdles when I'm feeling as though I'm picked on.
A visit to a "sex shop" believe it or not, is probably in store for you. An understanding person at our local "shop" helped me look forward to enjoying sex with my husband again. It can be intimidating the first time but so well worth it.
Let me know how you're doing.