Hi , My mom was diagnosed with secondary liver ion november 2007. We lost her last week on the 24th feb. She had a very advanced stage. They gave her palliative chemo, she had three cycles but it weakened her a lot. She lost her immune system almost altogether towards the end , and eventually had cardiac arrest. It is very agonising to see a close one go through this and not being able to do anything.I don't know what stage yours is at but do take couple of opinions. There are two schools of thought-- one set thinks if is advanced to just let it be and have pain management as and when needed. The other beleives in palliative chemo to slow the growth and add quality to life. In my mom's case, this did not happen.So just cherish every moment you have with him and make a decision based on what you and he feels are right after consulting the doctors.my wishes for his long life are with you.Nishi.