I will keep you both in my prayers..I need to thank you for what you have spoken.....I am 48...Had prostrate surgery in Jan.....Being in your 40's and being left like I am after surgery is rough but I'm alive..My wife has said the same things to me and its just reasurring to hear it from someone else also.....Mine was so wide spread there is not much hope for me ever regaining that part..But I'm dealing with it and thanking God for each day He gives me...