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Subject: Cancer and work
Date: 03/01/2008
Hi, I was recently diagnosed with thyroid cancer after having a tumour and my left lobe removed.  Subsequently, my right lobe was also removed and more cancer was found.  I am employed full time, but was off on maternity leave when I got this wonderful news.  My employer has now switched me to disability benefits and beginning in May, I would be on disability from an insurance provider.  At this stage of everything, I don't what is happening with my life.  I am scheduled for orientation and consultation at my local cancer hospital in three weeks.  I will likely be scheduled for radioactive iodine following that.  I guess, at this point, I don't know or understand what I am entitled to feel.  Some people say "at least it's a good cancer".  Yeah right...easy for them to say - is any cancer really good??  I also get the distinct impression from some that there is no reason I shouldn't be working.  I don't know what I am allowed to be doing.  I can say I'm dealing with the cancer by being in a state of denial.  I have a baby girl (13 months), a sometimes emotionally demanding marriage, a pre-existing panic/anxiety disorder with OCD that was intensified post partum.  Right now I'm pissed off.  I'm mad at my body for being sick.  I don't know where my health is at.  I knew before I even went to the doctor before all of this began that I was sick in some way.  I think I can honestly say I'm in a depression, but I'm plodding along through life.  I'm stressed about this long term disability and the application process and whether I'm being a baby and just need to suck this cancer crap up.  Can anyone help me.  Please and thanks.

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