spend all the time you can with her.. she will let you know what she needs,, dont urge her to eat if she doesnt want to. We played my Mom's favorite music, read books to her, let her talk about her life, This is a very hard time to watch, but the bond you forge with her now you will treasure forever. Give her whatever pain meds she asks for and let her do what she enjoys. My Mom is gone now, but I still feel like one of the greatest things we did together was take her to the end hand in hand. I owed her that and would do it again in a minute. May God bless you and all those around you