Hi, my dad has pc with mets in liver. He was not operable. He was diagnosed in October. He had 8 rounds of gemzar & cisplatin chemo with daily tarceva pill. This all was very tolerable and seems to be doing a good job. This seems to be a popular first line of defense. It sounds like you need to hope to get some shrinkage with chemo and radiation so they can operate. Good Luck, stay upbeat because the spirit is important