Hi Jamie and Amy,
This is Iris, from the Netherlands. When you trail my messages (under the name Flower) on this site back, I hope you can gain some hope and strength out of it.
This is a terrible kind of cancer and the effects on the family around the patient are at least as emotional and heavy as for the patient.
I wish you both strength, talk with your loved ones about this illness and enjoy every good day. My thoughts are with you,
Iris.