Hello everyone my name is lily and i have a husband with bile duct cancer since march 9,2008 first diagnosed had his first surgery which was bile duct reconstruction then had gemzar for about 3months but was vomiting and had to go back to hospital found tumor in stomach and they did a whipple surgery in august and said they removed everything they could see including in his lymphnodes that was 14 hour surgery he just turned 40 on jan,5 2008 and his last chemo which was folfox was jan 29 and he had been getting sick again in and out of hospital in pain and put bilalary drains so he now has 2 bags for the bile to drain he is still jaundice and was on strong antiobiotics went to doctor on march 10 and they told him nothing is working and that they were just treating the symptoms and not the problem so they decided to stop chemo and told him about hospice and he said he is not ready for that yet so we are trusting in the lord and church is praying for him and pray that he could stay around longer he eats very little and trys to drink he lost another 8lbs but he is very sleepy but he is holding on very well with the help of the lord i hope this can encourage all of you to say do not give up you all keep fighting i just thought i would share a little of our story any one have any questions feel free to post and i will answer. Lily