Dear Darlene:
I am new to this "cancer" thing...it's horrible. I am so sorry about your dad but it is so good to hear that you have no regrets and that you spent so much time with him.
My mom was diagnosed with colon cancer 5 weeks ago which has spread to her liver. They tell us she may live 1 to 1 1/2 years if she is lucky. I too feel so helpless and I wish I could just do all of this for her. She is so depressed and so sad. She worked up until her diagnosis and has so many friends and loves life. I hope when the time comes that I can deal with it as you have.
Good luck to you.
Karmen