Thanks Amy, Its awful that we all have to go thru this horrible deisease but its comforting to know we have others to talk to. We have not gotten a 2nd opinion yet since we are getting help at the #1 cancer hospital in the country BUT we have considered it. We have a contact at another awesome hospital in Boston that we may go see just to hear what they have to say. If they agree with what we are doing right now then we will obviously continue what we are doing. I am so happy to hear your husband is in remisson. I didnt think that was possible for us but never say never! It is still fresh here (3mo) and its hard to keep the faith when you see him in so much pain and so uncomfortable but we stay strong for the kids and for peace of mind. I am sorry for the loss of your SIL. I lost a friend who was 38 to breast cancer and my mom is a 2x survivor - it is an awful thing. I wish you and your husband all the best and I will be happy to chat privately anytime! ~Christine