tw2008,
I am so sorry to hear about your father in law.
I can only say that you are off to a good start with learning about MM. I have utilized these wonderful folks to learn as much as I can about MM.
My father was diagnosed in Jan 08 but experienced all the signs of MM since Oct 07. Through our experiences with the treatment my dad has been put on you need to know the drugs side effects. Know as much as you can about the drugs and treatments he taking. We have found through our many ER visits that the doctors are not familiar with the drugs MM patients may be taking. These side effects can be life threatening.
Sincerely,
paryingdaughter