On 4/8/2008
WOLFLADY1020 wrote:
My husband David was diagnosed with kidney cancer in december.
the kidney was removed and per urologist all cancer was removed with the
kidney. a recent follow up vist shows some abnormal cells in baldder for which he is receiving immunotherapy.This will be followed by biopsy, cat scan, urine and blood work and poss "preventative chemo. My question is
how to cope from test to results to dr visit and then all over. David is doing
Ok and has a posative attitude and not really a worrier...I on the other hand
have no pateints and a lot of anxiety...how do you all get from one thing to another with out going crazy....I dont want to cry in front of David
Thanks for any suggedtions
Sandy
Hi! Sandy, i don't know where the other thing is. All I know is to deal with whatever the day brings. My strength comes from knowing my God is still in control over everything in my life.I started this road over 11 yrs ago when i was dx with kidney cancer. It was removed and for 10 yrs I thought I was cured. Then almost 1yr ago I learned it hsd returned to the lymphnodes of my lungs & bone of left shoulder. So I battle this beast with whatever will work. When all is said and done I want to say I gave it my all.I have seen God move in so many lives because of my illness.So I have surrendered my will to his will. I know he is able to heal, if he does ok, if he doesn't thats ok too. I hope you can find your strength to go down this road with your husband. Take Care john
PS If you ever need to talk to someone I would be glad to listen anytime!