Hi my name is Jack and I have just been through this and I am still in recovery. Had my whole left kidney removed had a 9 lb tumor on mine a little had progressed into my viens but I have had good results so far. I am a plumber by trade for the last 30 yrs so my job depends on being physical. Whent back to work light duty I must add 6 weeks after surgery. Still sore and little pain but mostly preety good considering I was cut from left side to center of my chest following my lowest rib around. I think the best way for me to descibe it is uncomfortable. I try my best to limit my pain meds but I move so much at work I am not going to suffer, just be aware of your usage and be safe please don't use it as a crutch to deal with it all. I must admit I am scared to death about the unknown and this was all very sudden for me as well. Tell your husband to hang in there and if he ever wants to vent to me I could use someone as well to relate to. Yall hang in there I will make my prayers with yall in mind as well.