Thank you for your responce. I actually thought about you a lot today. I have researched and there isn't a lot on oligodendrogliomas. Sure, there is the basic information but not real stories that help us going through this, what others have experienced. Thank you for your offer to help. I have one question, my husband is doing well mentally, he doesn't worry about the diagnosis they gave him (it is always in the back of my head). He is frustrated with all the medication and the occasional seizures. Sometimes he will mention retirement and other things way in the future. I know it is healthy to think this way and not "dooms day." My question is how did your husband handle the diagnosis? I appreciate the person who posted don't live for death, but for tody (something like that). Little sayings like that help. I will keep you in my prayers as well as your children. God bless you.