My situation:
My mom takes care of both my father (pancretic cancer IV) and my 30 year old mentally ill brother. My brother might get so upset that my Mom will worry about the possibility of him commiting suicide (witnessing my father dying in the same house he is living in). My brother has severe OCD, depression, anxiety. He will also only go out of the house after dark. I feel very trapped. I understand loving your children more than your husband. I just want to get through this with everyone's quality of life as high as possible. So when my father becomes difficult for my Mom to handle he is coming to live with my husband and I. I guess I'm just venting now. Any advise on anything????
Thanks for listening, Diane Cauley